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The High Cost of Avoidance and Denial

January 20, 2020 by Honey Leveen Leave a Comment

Over the years, I’ve written multiple blogs posts about the importance of creating a solid long term care plan to address your late life wishes. Make the plan and share it with your family. And yet, time after time, I read horror stories about unnecessary suffering, neglect and even death because they never had “the conversation”. As if avoiding this important discussion gives them some artificial sense of control and safety. There is a cost of avoidance and it’s very high.

“I’d rather die than talk about this.”

The truth is that once chronic health problems arise, your ability to make good decisions often decreases. This is partly because your brain may have reduced cognitive powers. And also because making good choices becomes harder when you’re feeling panicked with fewer options. It’s really hard to see the big picture when it feels like your world is getting smaller.

Mr. & Mrs. Shaver Paid the Cost of Avoidance

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Mr. & Mrs. Shaver — “Sweethearts Forever”

As reported in the New York Times (Dec 2019), their love story is the thing movies are made of. A romantic courtship and a loving marriage of 60 years. Unfortunately, his wife starting showing signs of dementia. Even though his children encouraged hiring home care help, Mr. Shaver refused any discussion. “Mind your own business. I’m taking care of it.”

He had ample savings for their retirement, so we know the cost of hiring help was not the issue. As the sole caregiver to his wife, he was obviously aware of her declining state of mind. However, he was unwilling to make any move that would improve their environment.

It must have broken his heart to see the love of his life disappear from his life. She no longer recognized him or their daughters. One day, while she was asleep, her loving husband laid down in bed next to her and shot his wife. And then shot himself.

The Time to Plan is Now

I’ve been helping people create these plans for 30 years. One thing I’ve learned is that having such a plan in place provides a peace of mind and increases quality of living. Without the comfort of a strategy, the fear of aging only grows over the years. As you age, the concerns over injury (falling in the shower, tripping over furniture, dizziness from medications) can contribute to mounting fears.

Once the fear takes hold, it becomes harder to make clear and thoughtful decisions.  I’ve done several blogs on age-related brain loss and cognitive decline.

For most of us, whether we’re middle class or more affluent, owning long term care insurance (LTCi) is critical for ensuring dignity, options, and access to quality long term care. But it’s not enough. You must have ongoing, difficult conversations with your family so everyone understands the outcome you desire.

Click here to receive a free, no-obligation quote for your own LTCi coverage. Your family will thank you.

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Preventing Dementia? Walk Away From Those Apps

December 3, 2019 by Honey Leveen Leave a Comment

There’s been a lot written about the value of “brain games” to help reduce the risks of dementia and other loss of cognitive sharpness. In today’s technology-centric world, we have spent almost $2 billion on various brain training apps in 2018. This is four times the amount spent 2012, so they are really gaining popularity.

But are they working?

The most recent research shows mixed results. Sarah Lenz Lock is executive director of the Global Council on Brain Health. A respected expert in her field, Lock cautions, “Cognitive training has shown some promise, but people shouldn’t expect it to be a magic bullet.”

In fact, studies are now recommending a diversified approach combining brain training, healthy diet and exercise.

Reducing Risks of Dementia – A Walk In the Park

According to the New York Times, the World Health Organization (WHO) released new data on reducing risks of dementia. They found that these brain training apps do not show significant, consistent or long term improvement over time. Their recommendation is to focus on moving your body for 150 minutes each week. That’s about 30 minutes a day, taking off for weekends. This is completely manageable, isn’t it?

They emphasize that this activity must begin before signs of cognitive decline appear. Remember: this is about prevention, not cure.

The mind-body connection isn’t new and the evidence continues to build. Research finds that physical activity promotes growth and maintenance of neurons in seniors. And the benefits are much higher for those who enjoy cardio-based exercise instead of simple stretching.

So step to it! And enjoy the benefits of your activity for years to come.

Before you step away from your computer, consider another useful tool for your long term planning. Of course, I’m talking about long term care insurance (LTCi). Affordable premiums today can create a world of difference in the level of care you receive in the future. Click here to receive a free, no-obligation quote for your own LTCi coverage.

Filed Under: Age related cognitive impairment, Helpful Information About LTC, Information About LTC Tagged With: age related cognitive decline, Aging, Alzheimers Disease, cognitive decline, Cognitive Impairment, dementia

Brain Decline + Failure to Communicate = Failure Formula

July 1, 2019 by Honey Leveen Leave a Comment

failure to communicateIf you are a regular reader of my weekly blog posts, you’ll notice the recurring theme of Brain Loss. While the condition isn’t avoidable, many of the resulting consequences can be prevented. It just takes a little planning and some open conversations. Otherwise, you are building a path to failure.

Here’s an email I recently received from a concerned service provider:

“Hi Honey,

You have been so helpful in the past and I always think of you when a question about LTC comes up! 

We have a former patient who just moved to New York to be closer to her daughter.  She is 91 years old and has dementia.  She has had a LTC policy, but without her daughter knowing, she let her policy lapse.   The LTC insurance company is asking for documentation of her mental status.  Our doctor only saw her for general medical ailments and never formally evaluated her memory, so we have no test scores to provide.  He wrote a letter of incapacity but the insurance company is not accepting that. 

This woman stands to lose hundreds of thousands of dollars of coverage.  Do you have any suggestions for them?”  

I receive emails and distressed phone calls like this too often and they are heartbreaking. The families reaching out to me are in a state of emergency and dealing with unbelievable levels of stress. A lot of this stress is a result of failure to plan properly.

I’m assuming that the mother’s health has seriously declined, since the family had her moved at 91 years old to a new state. She like has, at minimum, mid-stage dementia. This means her dementia is at a point where it’s obvious and she needs lots of supervision.

Avoiding the Preventable Failure

Fortunately, most long term care insurance (LTCi) policies now include language allowing policyholders to reinstate their coverage and get their claim paid within 6 months of policy lapse. If she’s lucky, the mother qualifies for reinstatement and her claims can be paid.

The mother will need to have neurological testing to prove her dementia. Once proven, her choice to cancel her coverage could be reversed, as she was not mentally capable of making this serious decision.

Some Reasonable Questions

  • Does the daughter have a copy of her mother’s LTCi policy? When monitoring the health and care of our parents, it is critical to have the documentation and be familiar with the terms. Understand what options are available before you need to use them
  • If the policy lapsed from nonpayment, does the insurance company know to automatically notify the daughter? This is a standard part of every LTCi application. Pay attention and remember to complete it. There is good news: this appointment can be added or changed at any time, as long as the policy is in good standing.
  • Did the family ever have the conversation with their mother about what kind of care she wanted to receive once she was unable to make these decisions on her own?

This tragedy occurred because of the family’s failure to explore and document their mother’s wishes and desires ahead of time, in a frank manner.

Take a moment to explore how you can plan for an easier future for yourself or someone you love. Click here to receive your free, no-obligation quote for long term care insurance.

 

Filed Under: Age related brain loss, Age related cognitive impairment, Correcting Ignorant Public Figures, Denial, Helpful Information About LTC Tagged With: age related cognitive decline, brain loss, cognitive decline, LTC Insurance, LTCi, LTCi facts

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